A week of fun

My parents came into town for my cousin's wedding but then stayed a week and we has such a blast! It's so fun to have them come to visit. I love that they get to see Bailey and this trip they even babysat her over night. The week started with my sweet cousin Melissa's wedding. The wedding was so beautiful and the newlyweds are so happy and cute! Plus what a bonus that we got to see my dad! Ha I lucked out! When we first got to the wedding Bailey was extra cuddly and latched right onto her papa! It was seriously adorable.
Here is Uncle Stan and Aunt Sally playing with Bailey everyone can't get enough of our little star!
At one point my cousin Veronica came to see Bailey and she had a sucker. Bailey wanted it so bad it was really funny! She would like push her way to get it our of her hands! Chris decided we should let her try one so we got a caramel apple sucker for her to try and she really loved it. It was so cute!



Next came the birthday weekend...
Lisa's birthday was on Sunday but we celebrated for 3 days and it was a blast. On Friday we went to Red Rock with my Aunt Susan, Mom and Ashley. Saturday we went to dinner at Bonsai with our friends followed by bowling all night. Sunday we went to a movie and then to Happy Sumo for dinner. Me and Chris lucked out and went to all of these yummy dinners.

Here is Ashley, Susan, the beautiful birthday girl Lisa and Chris waiting to get our food at Red Rock.
Lisa, Chris and me!
Bailey and Grandma Julie...you can tell by Bailey's face that she is blowing bubbles. She loves doing that!

Me and Bailey...I love her so much if you can't tell!
Bailey and her Tia Susan


The beautiful birthday girl Lisa... such a dork but who can't love this girl??
Blowing out the candles on her birthday cake

On Saturday we met up with Mom and Dad Bailey to eat yummy Cafe Rio for lunch and shop like crazy at Fashion place for Lisa's birthday. It was so cute of course my Dad hates shopping but he tagged along anyway and walked Bailey around the mall he is such a proud Papa!
Here is Bailey with Memaw! I love this picture!
The fam on the way home. We had so much fun but probably spent too much money. Memaw bought the cutest Halloween outfit for Bailey..can't wait for her to wear it!
Sunday we spent time at Grandma Bailey's house for Lisa's birthday and then decided to go see the movie Stardust at the Gateway. Oh my gosh I loved that movie! So did Bailey.. she fell asleep on the way to the movies and then woke up in the middle of the movie. But she seriously did not make a peep through the whole thing! She thought it was the coolest thing ever. There were a couple times in the movie where I had to cover her eyes because the witches were a little scary! :) I was in shock at how good she was through the movie. The last time I took her to a movie back in July she was not so good I had to keep getting up with her and walking around! She is seriously the best baby she is always so content and barely cries. After the movie we went to my favorite place ever...Happy Sumo. Mmmm We love sushi! And Happy sumo is one of my favorite sushi restaurants.
Dad Mom and Grandma Bailey at Happy Sumo. Grandma didn't know it but she ate a roll with raw fish and thought it was so yummy. After we told her and she was a little grossed out! Haha!
My little B she is the cutest thing ever!
Our little family
Mommy and Bebe!
Next stop... Gardner's Village! This is one of my favorite places to shop ever! Gardner's Village is a little shopping center made from old houses and cottages. I seriously could go on and on about the antique shops, and the fall stores and everything. During the Halloween season they decorate the place with 100 witches. They are the funniest witches you will ever see. I can't wait to take Bailey here when she is older! Such a fun place.





This witch was hilarious, she was actually hoola hooping! Bailey thought it was so crazy!


This witch was called Witchy Poo! How funny is that!
Here is Memaw giving Bebe a bath. Bailey sure does love bath time!

This is a doll me and Lisa used to play with in the bath at Grandma Bailey's house. I can't believe she kept it all these years. I totally remember playing with it all those years ago. I just love my Grandma Bailey so much I have so many fun memories with her. Before we moved to California my Dad lived at her house so I can remember Grandma getting us ready in the morning, giving us baths, lots of fun bedtime stories and always walking to rocket park with her. I think grandparents are so important and I really want Bailey to have special memories with all of hers! Anyway... Doesn't our little old doll resemble Bailey? She is our little cupie doll!
Mom and Dad~ Thanks for the wonderful week! We had such a blast! Lets plan a time for me and Bailey to come up for like a week again! I think it would be fun to have her check out Disneyland for the first time. Muah! Love you!

The 50 Best Parenting Tips Ever

I read this today and I love it. I am posting this so I can remember it!

The 50 Best Parenting Tips Ever
By Diane Debrovner

1. Grant a wish. Take an hour or two each week to do exactly what your child desires without interruptions or distractions -- even if she wants to play a game you hate or build block towers and then knock them all down.

2. Start and end each day with "I love you." We often think we show our love for our children through our actions, but kids want and need to be told that they're loved.

3. Think ahead about safety. Anticipate what your child's next step is likely to be, then babyproof accordingly. If your 9-month-old is about to stand, now's the time to put up the gate, cover the sharp corners of tables, and keep pot handles turned away from the edge of the stove.

4. Praise your partner. Never finish a day without acknowledging -- at least once -- your spouse's role in the life of your children.

5. Choose child care carefully. Spend as much time researching your options as you did the last time you bought a new car. Call others who use the facility, talk with the director and the staff, and spend lots of time observing the children there at play.

6. Leave the scene. If your child is having a meltdown, pick her up from behind to carry her away. Too much face-to-face interaction will escalate the situation.

7. Don't rush to punish. Every child has a cup that needs to be filled -- and refilled -- with love, attention, affection, and respect. A rough day, a big frustration, or a harsh word empties the cup. If your child is acting up, give him a hug, listen to him, and spend time together. He'll be more cooperative, and you'll both feel closer.

8. Never take a bath break. When you bathe your baby, don't answer the phone unless there's a portable one right next to you. An infant can drown in seconds if left unattended.

9. Look the other way. Once a week, ignore one of your child's small transgressions -- bad table manners, forgetting to clean up right away -- and remind yourself that you're not perfect either.

10. Sleep when your baby sleeps. If you keep to your old sleep schedule, you'll be sleep -- deprived, which makes you more likely to be cranky and can contribute to postpartum depression.

11. Don't panic about picky eaters. They won't starve, so just continue to offer a variety of foods and small, frequent meals. Let your kids see how much you like vegetables.

12. Act now, talk later. Respond to your child's misbehavior in the heat of the moment, but talk about the incident later in a "planned discussion," in which you lay down the rules and your expectations.

13. Be your baby's favorite toy. Instead of always offering a plaything, amuse him yourself. After all, you move, you make sounds, you can take turns with him and respond to what he does, and you are warm, soft, and safe.

14. Double-check your car seat. Improperly installed child-safety seats are a major cause of injury. Whenever you put your child in his car seat, make sure it still fits correctly.

15. Be romantic. Go out on dates, kiss in front of your kids, and say, "I love you" to your partner (with your kids in earshot).

16. Keep syrup of ipecac in your glove compartment. You probably have it at home, but you may also need it on the road (if your doctor advises you to use it).

17. Make photo albums. Take two hours a month to create lasting, organized family memories. As you gather photos or souvenirs, you'll have time to reflect on the preciousness of your life.

18. Soothe your baby's dry skin. Keep a jar of thick emollient at the changing table, and massage her legs and thighs at each change.

19. Coin a nickname. Call your child by a special moniker that reflects your unique connection to him. A child with many names is a child loved many times.

20. Read all food labels. Always know what your child is eating, especially if she has food allergies. For instance, whey and casein, common ingredients in packaged goods, are really just milk.

21. Present a united front. When you and your spouse disagree about how to handle misbehavior, keep talking and reading about it until you reach a consensus or a compromise.

22. Make family rituals sacred. Once a week, do an activity together, such as reading a book out loud, taking a walk, driving to the woods, or having Sunday breakfast at the same diner or coffee shop. These are the types of memories your kids will treasure most.

23. Nip aggression in the bud. Don't ever let your toddler hit or kick you, even if you know she's angry or frustrated. Block the hits immediately, and firmly say, "No, you do not hit me."

24. Teach your child simple songs and nursery rhymes. Rhyming and playing with sounds is fun and tunes your child in to the specific skills that are needed for reading.

25. Put your baby down when she's awake. Letting her self-soothe is the key to her sleeping through the night. If you nurse or bottle-feed her before bed and she falls asleep, change her diaper one last time to wake her up.

26. Make amends. One of the most important things you can say to your child is "I'm sorry, I messed up." Admitting you're wrong also gives your child the right to make mistakes.

27. Never make your love conditional. You should love your child just because he was born, not because he plays the piano or aces math tests. Tell him often that you'd love him no matter what grades he got and that your love for him grows bigger every day.

28. Monitor yourself. You are your child's first and most powerful moral teacher, so make sure you set an example that you want her to copy. Ask yourself nightly, What did my child learn from my behavior today?

29. Trust your instincts with child care. If you have reservations about a caregiver or feel that your child isn't doing as well as he could, you're probably right. Don't worry about hurt feelings or awkward conversations. Your child's needs come first.

30. Don't be overprotective. You shouldn't try to shield your child from all disappointments, failures, or stressful situations. Kids need to learn to handle difficulty in order to cope with life's challenges.

31. Avoid vicious cycles. If your child is misbehaving in a particular way and you've told him 100 times before not to do it, don't issue warning No. 101. Instead, make it easier for your child to behave. If he always leaves his coat on the floor, for example, install low hooks in the closet.

32. Let your toddler explore. Parents often don't want their children to bang big pots or do other things that are annoying or messy, but that's the way kids learn.

33. Wake a sleeping baby. There are times when doing this is a good idea -- during a morning nap so he'll be sleepy enough for an afternoon nap, or during an afternoon nap so he'll be sleepy enough at bedtime.

34. Ban bad-mouthing. Kids aren't born to hate -- they learn it. Refuse to allow discriminatory remarks of any kind. Help your child discover the positive traits of people, and teach her to focus on the similarities rather than the difficulties.

35. Bait and switch. When your child is misbehaving, distract him with something that's incompatible with the misbehavior. For example, if your child is grabbing food from someone else's plate, hand him a glass of milk.

36. Encourage friendship over popularity. You can't guarantee that your child will be liked by everyone, and it's not your job to make her popular. Support her friendships, but don't try to micromanage her social life.

37. Wear rose-colored glasses. Your upbeat attitude is critical to your child's self-image. Change your language so everyone views him more positively. For example, instead of saying, "My child is overactive," say, "My child is so energetic."

38. Listen before you give advice. The most crucial moments in parenting are when your child is experiencing an emotion such as sadness, fear, anger, disappointment, or embarrassment. First, help your child label the emotion, and validate how she feels. Then, and only then, suggest ways to solve the problem. That way, your child will be more likely come to you for help.

39. Demonstrate differences to your toddler. For example, your child might like one kind of food (say, sweets) while you prefer another (salad). This is of endless interest to young children, who are learning that people can have different perspectives and tastes -- an important life lesson.

40. Don't be a slave to developmental milestones. Children develop at different rates. Try not to push your child -- he will let you know when he's ready to start crawling, walking, or reading.

41. Limit rewards. Help your child develop his own internal reward system so he congratulates himself for a job well done. Change your pronouns: Instead of "I'm really proud of you," say, "You should really be proud."

42. Don't help too much with homework. It's your child's obligation, not yours. If you pitch in, she'll feel she's not capable of doing it herself.

43. Make honesty a priority. Never lie in front of your kids -- for example, don't tell a telemarketer that your husband isn't home when he's really sitting on the couch.

44. Share your loves. Whether it's a favorite hobby, a wonderful song or poem, a great recipe, one of your favorite childhood memories, or a fun game, it will be remembered and cherished.

45. Set your child's sleep routine. By 3 months, your baby should begin sleeping where you want her to be sleeping at 1 year. After that, it will be much more difficult for her to make a change. If she's in a bassinet, move her to the crib; if you won't be cosleeping, move her out of your bed now.

46. Take your child's side. If you don't know what happened in a particular situation, don't play devil's advocate. For example, if he says, "I hate the teacher! Today she made fun of me in front of my friends," don't immediately say, "I'm sure you were giving her a good reason."

47. Don't worship expert advice. Believe solely in your children, not in Mozart CDs, baby academies, or flash cards. No one will ever know what your children need or who they really are better than.

48. Be very silly. Dance, burp, laugh until you cry, and spit watermelon seeds at your kids.

49. Plan meals together. Let your kids help choose dishes to make and take part in the preparation - they'll be more likely to eat what's served.

50. Break the rules sometimes. Have ice cream for dinner, or wear pajamas all day on a snowy weekend.

Wheeler Farm

Today I met up with my friends Danielle, Kayla, and Kayla's son Tristin for lunch. We always have such a good time together. We have been friends for almost 7 years and needless to say have been through thick and thin together. We try to get together at least once a month. It's funny even if we go a long time between seeing each other it always seems like no time has passed. To me, that is a true friendship. These girls mean the world to me! Kayla's son Tristin is 11 months older than Bailey and we joke that he is her future boyfriend! They were so cute together at lunch, they even held hands...aww! Anyway we decided we would take the kiddo's to wheeler farm. I am so glad we did because it was so much fun even if it was the windiest day ever!

Me and Danielle
The geese at the farm. It was actually really weird they started attacking each other right after I took this picture! I have never seen that before!
Sweet Bailey looking at the Geese.
Kayla showing Tristin the Geese.
Danielle walking with Tristin
Cute little Tristin running to his mommy!
Kayla and Tristin

Gone Fishing...

Winter is coming slowly but surely... so Chris and I decided we should take advantage of the nice weather we have for a few weeks and take a day to go fishing. I am so glad we did because we had a blast! The day before we went it was actually snowing so we weren't even sure that we would be able to but Sunday we woke up and it was such a gorgeous day. We just went to Utah Lake, we were pretty much the only people there. We didn't end up catching anything but it was just fun spending some quality time together. Here is a picture of me on the way there...Here Chris is putting the bait on his hook... I actually baited my own hook and it was probably the most disgusting thing ever! I am proud of myself for trying though! :)
The view of the mountains from the lake so beautiful!